One of the hardest things in life is to let go of those we love the most, but it's something we have to learn to do for ourselves. We are able to realize when they no longer feel the same, therefore we must be strong and even if in the short term our soul breaks in the long run it is healthier.
Letting someone go becomes easy as we learn to accept and love ourselves for who we are and what we are not, so we will be calmer soon.
As I pointed out, it may hurt at first, but once the pain goes away, you will feel more alive than ever. You will begin to see things from a completely different perspective and understand that letting go is a sign of strength, courage and great love.
You let someone go, not because you no longer care, not because you no longer need them or because you no longer need them you would like them in your life, but because you understand that he is no longer the same with you, and that you are giving more to the relationship.
And if it was he who left you, be strong, do not be martyred with asking yourself questions like: I did wrong, what would have happened if. They must want you as you are, without pretending that you are another, but if you are looking for them, it is because they were not the right person for you. Do not insist.
If you have not found a way to be at peace with yourself, and if you have not found a way to be happy on your own, then you will not be happy with the next person you love. You can not expect others to give you what you can not give yourself.
Change the way you think and the words you say. Learn to talk to yourself, and talk about yourself in the same way you talk to those you love the most.
It is important to spend time with one alone. You can walk and observe nature. Write about what you think and what you feel. Do something that you like a lot, invite your friends, laugh, dance.
Stop thinking or looking at things or memories that cause you pain, stress, anxiety, fear and sadness and concentrate on the things that make your soul Happy.
You must treat yourself well, with love. It is good to get ready to go out, to exercise, to have a massage, to have your nails painted, etc., and to be thankful for the benefits of life.
The more you learn to enjoy your own company, the more comfortable you you will feel with the idea of letting go.
Why insist, when life wants you to have something better?
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