Has it happened to you that the more you are in love, the farther away the man you love? That he no longer has the same enthusiasm as always.
I'm going to be a bit direct, but it's necessary. Some tips that I give you so that this does not happen are the following:
Do not let yourself be carried away by your insecurities: If your partner does not call you for a few hours, do not ask him questions, or be angry with him
Be continually negative: Do not put on the shoulders of your partner the feeling of need to balance what seems to go wrong in your life, generating wear and tear and surely breaking, in the end. 19659002] You go very fast: It is a mistake to go to bed very fast and accept all your invitations, always being available. Let him fight for you, let him chase you. If he catches you very easily, he will be bored with you.
He speaks opportunely: Because at times we think it is better to let things go by and fall into oblivion rather than put together an "unnecessary" discussion about something that bothers you Error! No conflict is soundly unresolved, and surely that with which you are so uneasy at this moment will come to light, and more strongly, in some future discussion. Better to talk when it's time to do it.
Be desperate: At the beginning of a relationship, make it clear what you want, but do not try so hard to be his girlfriend. If it goes well, if not, he will miss it.
You talk too much: No matter how beautiful you are, you are the one who does not stop talking, men will get away from you, especially if you talk from other persons. The less you talk, the more you want to know about yourself.
Keeps secrets: And I do not mean the surprise party that you have been preparing for months, of course. The secrets, when they are discovered (and this ALWAYS happens), do much more harm than the truth said in time, and it's a usually irreparable damage.
You're bored: When your partner calls you and the conversation lasts less than five minutes, something is wrong. Investigate what you like. Men get excited when a woman talks about what they like.
You are extremely feminist: Do not try to imitate men in everything. Many women keep men away because they behave like them. Men love femininity in women.
Lack of affection : You reduce the details with the couple and do not give any demonstration of interest. You forget anniversaries or important dates.
You're predictable in bed: You always use the same positions, you do not dare to experience new things, you have lights off all the time, you're too demure
Be able to apologize: The fight of egos has to be left out of relationships, or they will never get anywhere in the middle of a battle "I VS you". To lower the head and to offer an apology to amend a situation shows maturity and love, contrary to what is believed.
You are very jealous and controlling: Act with intelligence and detect situations that are really alarming. Let everything else pass.
Critique: And none of that "constructive criticism". What you have to have are calm dialogues in which you expose points of view and not criticism that pass the full responsibility from one shoulder to another. The idea is really to build, but criticizing is not the way, for sure. Do not try to change your man completely. If he has or does something you do not like, he slowly gains his confidence and suggests a friendly change of form.
You're monotone: Do not let him always make the plans. If you are the one who plans, break the routine. Change restaurants and cinemas for parks and museums, a play or a concert.
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