Many times we can be curious to check the couple's cell phone. It is a feeling to some extent normal, but if you do not know how to control can be harmful to the relationship.
Reasons why it is not advisable:
Privacy:
This is not a good show of affection Everyone deserves their own space, especially on their mobile phone. When you invade their space, you give them a good excuse to invade yours.
Addiction:
If you start checking your cell phone, you'll keep doing it. You will become increasingly addicted. Even if you do not find anything suspicious, you will associate the act of checking with the feeling of relief. So every time you look for relief, you may need the urge to snoop on your cell phone.
Trust:
If you think you can not trust your partner and check your cell phone, it's you who becomes someone who can not be trusted.
Confidential information:
Many people have confidential information about their work on their devices. If you check your devices you could cause great problems at work.
You always lose:
If you check your partner's phone you face the dilemma of dealing with what you find. If there is nothing, the relief will be quickly replaced with guilt and you will have remorse for violating the privacy of your partner, who did nothing wrong. And if you find something suspicious you will have to decide whether to confront the person and admit that you looked at his cell phone or keep the secret while planning how to tell him without knowing that you have broken the trust.
A simple glance can end a relationship:
There are people who are very demanding with that kind of thing. Especially when the relationship is just beginning, a detail like this could detonate everything, even though you did not have bad intentions.
He might think you're a jealous neurotic who wants to control everything and you might think he's a womanizer of the worst. All for a misunderstanding that could have been solved with a little communication.
Every human being has the right to privacy, therefore it is not acceptable to be looking at the couple's cell phone or computer. If you do, it's just a sign that you have to review why you're not trusting, and decide to start doing it.
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